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Seeing Green: Does Marijuana Cause Domestic Violence Or Not?



Does marijuana cause domestic violence or not?

Well, let's start with the confusion.

Wendy L. Patrick, Ph.D. reported marijuana use is a risk factor for violence.

Dr. Jordan Tishler stated that intimate partner violence is decreased by marijuana use.

Dr. Ryan C. Shorey and a team of researchers over at the American Psychological Association announced that marijuana use is positively and significantly related with intimate partner violence.

So, as we can see, this is a complicated matter with no easy answers. Right?

Well, not so fast.

Considering that we're in PAIP and that we're practicing personal accountability and self-awareness, when it comes to a matter with so many different opinions, we should possibly focus less on the research out there and focus more on what we have experienced in our own lives.

Start with answering the following questions:
Is marijuana causing conflict in your life?
Are there arguments about your marijuana use or spending habits?
Are you dependent on marijuana to calm you down or help you deal with people?
Have you attempted to decrease your use but have been unsuccessful?
Have you noticed that you require more of it to do what it used to do with less?
Has someone complained about your marijuana use?

If you have answered yes to any of the above questions, maybe it's time to explore whether marijuana is causing conflict in your life and relationships.

If you need help with marijuana addiction management or cessation, there are addiction counselors and programs available to help you.

Additionally, Marijuana Anonymous groups are free and can assist you with better understanding the road to sobriety.

Remember: It is our responsibility to be fully present for our own lives and mindful of the consequences of our actions. 
-SolEK, MS, CFLE, CDVP




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