Having everything just the way we like it is kind of the way we like things. We live in a world that values customization. So, it's easy for some of us to want to program everything from our phones to our relationships. And, it's not unusual for technology to be a part of our relationships. Everything from face timing, to scheduling our dates, to recording special moments, to creating videos and movies and pictures and songs can all be done from our devices. In our intimate partner relationships, we often use technology to enhance and increase our communications and express our love. Another major bonus is that technology allows us to be in two places at once. We can be in the place we physically have to be in and also be in the place where we emotionally want to be in, all at the same time. Technology and relationships for many of us is a win-win, until it isn't. In a balanced, healthy relationship, technology is a gift that allows us to stay connected. In an imb